This hurts, and most women learn the lesson pretty quickly, but if you keep going back for more of this kind of treatment, what does that say about you? We all know the power a bad boy can hold over us, but is it so strong that it makes women lose all agency? You meet them at the same place. Is it a self-worth issue, or do you just not know any better?
Why do you pine over men who clearly don't love you back?
For example, was there a lot of chaos and drama growing up in your family? Close Share options. Subscribe Now. Now with a bit of awareness, you can see how you've been banging your head against the wall, trying to make it work with these guys. You know he's bad news and it's frustrating, but what is it about you that allows you to keep feeling this way?
If that's you, then why? There have and always will be winners out there. So you keep dating the same guy over and over. Subscribe Now. Now, when you look back on your past relationships, you see it. You meet them at the same place.
Why do you attract the bad boy in the first place?
For example, was there a lot of chaos and drama growing up in your family? You know how the story goes — once he's had his fun, he disappears and leaves the woman high and dry. Why else would you come back to the place where you met a rude guy that hurt you? Or are you still carrying a bit of heartache from "the one that got away," and you're unconsciously trying to recapture that moment in another person?
Mix it up and you might be pleasantly surprised.